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terça-feira, novembro 13, 2018

Gentleman-in-waiting: "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport



"Working right trumps finding the right work."


In "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport



After having finished "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck", I wanted to read this one to work as a counterpoint. I'm glad I did.


When I was younger, I watched Jurassic Park one and two, and I wanted to be Steven Spielberg! Doing well in my dance classes made me want to be a professional tap dancer. Watching Top Hat and West Side Story made me want to combine both aspirations to become a director of musicals, both film and theatre! By the time I was in secondary school, the arts were not viewed as a viable career option, and out of law, engineering, and other traditional subjects, I choose to become a Computer Scientist. I was in my final year at university studying Computer science, and I'd happily have remained a gentleman-in-waiting for several more years to save up and see the world! (I didn't have a career goal that I was passionate about).

A more honest job description I’d have gladly apply for: “applicant must be willing to perform multiple jobs, cheerfully and deferentially: selling books to rich peeps who read to "better themselves;" babysitting the rich peeps' kids; writing a "creative" blog that conforms to someone else's tastes and dictates; "circulating" among the rich peeps, perhaps by carrying the cheese platters; teaching creative writing courses to rich peeps who read to better themselves; and serving as a promotional prop, the "creative intellectual " rich peeps will speak of amusingly after they jet home. But maybe that would be not so good.

My books-related experience with an A-lister in Lisbon many eons ago too place with Bryan Adams (for those of you who don’t know, Bryan lived many years in Lisbon when he was a teenager; I was running into him all the time in Cascais, our Portuguese Cannes):

Bryan Adams walked into the Bertrand bookstore, my favourite bookstore at the time, accompanied by a tall blonde who was presumably his girlfriend, and a guy with a working-class English accent, who I guessed was his agent or some other sort of factotum. The blonde headed straight for the Romance novels, while the agent asked one of the clerks to show him the Self-help section. Mr. Adams, apparently not a reader, stood just inside the doorway. Most people will at least aimlessly browse if they're not book lovers. Not Mr. Adams. He stood fidgeting, not giving the shelves of books a glance. After a few minutes, his patience exhausted, Adams put fingers to lips and whistled. The blonde dutifully scampered to his side. The agent brought a couple self-help books to the counter and paid for them while Adams fumed. I looked around but everyone pretended not to be paying attention (yes, we Portuguese are very polite and friendly).

My dream job and I can safely say I’d be exceedingly good at it: Writing a blog about my experiences at an exclusive resort in the Canary Islands would be an irresistible opportunity for satire. But it seems satirists in the Canary Islands get stabbed to death. So maybe I'd take a pass in the end. I think I'd probably wind up so exhausted by the whole business of doing navel-gazing, scuba diving, reading, and other worthwhile activities, that any blogging I managed to do at the end of it all would be a retail rant-only-journal. Possibly entertaining for people who are interested in stories of how many different ways of doing fuckall on an island can be wrong (and oh, boy, are there a lot of them), but probably not the sort of light and frothy lifestyles-of-the-rich-and-shameless-come-envy-them-and-come-over-too (why the Canary Islands? Because I’ve booked a cruise to go there come next April 2019 ROTFL!)

Sounded to me pretty much like Viktor Frankl‘s ideas put in modern day wording. But nevertheless, I agree with the most of Newport’s ideas, but I’m not sure about them. I know what is the point...Cal is right about so many things, but saying that "don't follow your passion, it will make you poor and frustrated" isn't a good advice either. It sounds to me more like "love your job by force, then you will become so good that you will feel passion for what you do". Happy times will come in the FUTURE, the same history over and over again. Yeah, you will be passionate because of your comfort zone and your financial situation, but I think that's not the only path for a human being's life to succeed. For me, following your passion is still a good advice. Look at Steve Vai, he became one of the best musicians of the planet just by following his passion.... he said: "I never worked a day in my life, I had a lot of challenges but I made my career with ZERO EFFORT, because playing the guitar was my juice, I just couldn't stop doing it". There is a mistake about the follow or don't follow your passion debate, because we always concentrate on DOING things... you know, if you do this you will be rich, if you do that you will be poor... but is not about on what you DO but on what you THINK... It's all about of the way we think, so you can take any job you want and turn that experience in a positive way, learning as much as possible, but don't get stuck if it’s not your passion: PASSION IS SOMETHING NATURAL WITHIN YOU, IT CAN'T BE BUILT, you can develop your skills, but you can't develop your passion.

In my opinion, you have to notice that the world isn't the same anymore... Maybe this book is useful, but soon words like career, college, grades, jobs and bosses with be part of the past, so my personal advice is to follow your passion AND build up your skills as much as you can on whatever you're doing right now, so you will be so good they can't ignore you anyway :)



NB: I just wish Newport could write proper English. I’m just a bloody foreigner and even I can spot the bad grammar.